“Allah aapki jodi salamat rakhe”

When said that people back of immediately saying yeh mera shohar /begum nahin hai. Are ‘joidis’ or ‘pairs’ a natural state of being? How many people ever think about how jodi’s could be friends, sisters, mom and daughter, partners, colleagues? How many people think that how families/ pairs/ jodis/ couples are but social constructions? If we were meant to be a fixed 1-1 jodi woudn’t we be born stuck to each other?